Choosing the perfect engagement ring for your future spouse can be a mammoth undertaking. Here are a few tips on keeping it simple but effective with these five steps.
1. Set Your Budget & Understand Value
According to Harper’s Bazaar, the average engagement ring costs $9,900 in the US, which translates to £7374, which is in my mind an excessive amount but luckily I'm not the only one who thinks that way, with many couples paying far less but for something just as sentimental. The final price is often dictated by how diamonds are sourced (lab-grown or mined), their size, and their quality but lots of modern couples are also opting for less traditional rings using other kinds of semi-precious gems.
There’s no singular approach to budgeting — ultimately, it’s a discussion of value that’s best decided between couples. For those plotting surprise proposals, you’ll just have to subtly test your partner’s expectations ahead of time.
2. Choose the Right Stone & Cut
Everyone has their personal preferences regarding stones and cuts. Glancing at your partner’s most-loved jewellery should steer you toward their favourite metal and styles. If in doubt, enlist the help of trusted friends or family.
In 2025, there are plenty of trends from which to take inspiration. Oval cuts are on the rise, while colored gemstones are equally in demand. Think sapphires and emeralds, not just beelining towards diamonds.
3. Decide on Ethical Sourcing
Lab-grown diamonds now reflect 17% of the market, which is a pretty astounding shift. The reasoning behind this isn’t just budget, although of course that does help as they are more affordable but purchasing lab-grown diamonds is seen as the best choice when ethically sourcing engagement rings, as it avoids concerns about illegal or exploitative diamond mining. Alternatively, if your heart is set on natural gems, look for traceable mining — transparency is key.
4. Select a Style That Fits Your Lifestyle
Remember that you’re not just temporarily decorating your partner’s hand. This ring should last for eternity (or at least until it’s shifted from its spot by a formal wedding band). Regardless of your partner’s future styling choices, it must be durable.
Chunky bands have rocketed to popularity following Dua Lipa’s engagement. Bezel or sculptured settings are traditionally high in wearability, too. Balance beauty with comfort.
5. Customisation & Personal Touch
There’s a rising demand for customisation and personal touches across general consumerism. Engagement rings are no different; engraving, silhouetted motifs, and incorporating birthstones are all sweet strategies to add meaning. Personalising engagement rings is a great way to take a more bespoke approach to your proposal.
Decision-making is never easy, but this framework will keep shopping exciting, not just challenging. Good luck!
