The relationship between parent and teen is very different to that of a younger child. Their needs are different as their interest in the wider world expands. They also start to spend more time with their peers or their interests, hobbies and sports. It can feel like time is squeezed, and while in some aspects that may be true, it's more about making the time we have with them, quality time, where we are fully present. It’s easy to drift into a routine where family life becomes increasingly busy, where everyone may be in the same room, but not really connecting. You might chat about their day or how school or college was, or what’s for dinner, yet miss the chance to properly tune in to each other. That said, a bit of intention can turn ordinary moments into something that is actually more meaningful. What quality time with your teen really means. Spending time together isn’t the same as having good communication and understanding of each other. You can sit through an entire evenin......
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Showing posts with label teenager. Show all posts
Showing posts with label teenager. Show all posts
28/08/2024
Tips for Planning a Teenager Birthday Party
My eldest is turning 14 later this month and organising a teen birthday party is definitely different to that of a young child and in some ways it's a little more pressure to get it right. Teens have ever-changing needs and sometimes it can feel hard to keep up, but like many things less can be more, asking them to focus on their core group of friends and putting together something special for a smaller number of young people can take some of the pressure away. In this short article, we offer a few tips for parents who are planning a birthday get-together for their teenager. Embrace the event – Involve your teen in the planning stages and aim to be inclusive without being too authoritative, if that makes sense, try to see things from your teen's perspective even when you don't agree work to find a middle ground. Discuss do’s and don’t s - Make sure you sit down together and come up with a few do’s and don’ts, which will help to avoid any issues as clear communication is ......
I eldest is going to be turning 9 this year and I am starting to feel a real shift in how he perceives his place in the world, our family unit and himself. He is not old enough to do things unsupervised as of yet but I can see the beginnings of wanting a little bit more independence. While I actively encourage my boys to take calculated risks such as climbing trees, making dams in rivers, exploring the outdoor world and their surroundings, I am always in close reach, in fact nearly all playdates with the except of one or two when I've known the parents for a substantial time, I have been present, even birthday parties are mostly with parents present. Although the change is slowly starting to happen, for example, he has yet to do a sleepover but I can imagine that it will be the first request of the small step to independence and it's made me think about the future. One of the hardest thing for a lot of parents to come to terms with is just how fast their kids grow up......
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